Tribute to a Lamed Vavnik

 

Rabbi Michael L. Feshbach

Temple Beth Am, Williamsville, New York

There is a figure in Jewish history known as the Baal Shem Tov The name is in fact a title, applied to the founder of the Hasidic movement in Judaism The correct translation is that this person was the Master of the Good Name, meaning, G-d's name, that he was , in other words, a miracle worker. A common mistranslation, however, a misunderstanding of the title is that this figure is the Master of a Good Name, a reference not to specific deeds, but to character itself to reputation to the regard and affection and esteem in which a person is held by others.

This second translation may be technically wrong, but it is spiritually right.  Not only for figures who lived long ago.  But for people who make a difference in our lives, even now

I went back to my old home of Erie, Pennsylvania, the other day. I have been back twice. Both times were for funerals. This last one was for a truly special man, one whose story I want to share more widely than with just those who knew him.

His name was Hyman Casselman, "Casey," to most of us, “Chayim” to a few. And he was, truly, the Master of a Good Name. Held in as high a regard, and with as much affection, as anyone I have ever known.

He was a physician; he practiced medicine for over 65 years , retiring only in 1992, in his early nineties. As he spoke with others about   his field, he returned to one theme, indeed, to one word, again and again.  He spoke of health, and he spoke of healing, of balance and biology.  But most of all, as he spoke, I remember thinking that I was witness to a special event, in which a man and his message were one.  That word he kept using. It just seemed so right coming from him   "Compassion," he said is the primary tool of the physician a balm in any healing and more the inner compass of a human being “Compassion.”

He was, perhaps , the first Jewish physician to practice in Erie. He served a mixed community: rich and poor, Jew and gentile, white and black ... treating all the same way, and earning the respect and admiration of generations of patients in the same family. Just by being who he was, he blazed a path and paved the way and broke down the barriers of ignorance through the sheer goodness of his heart.

There are other things I remember.  The pride Casey took in his family his sons Tommy boy and Barry my boy.

That's what he called them.  I remember being surprised when I finally met Tom that he was, well, my father's age in his late 60s because I had been prepared to think of him as Tommy boy.

Casey married a woman he met in Erie in 1932. They lived above his office, on 26th and Parade. Times were tough, and sometimes Casey took a dollar an office visit... or even, occasionally, a chicken or a rabbit as payment in kind. Or nothing at all, from the patients for whom even that was too much.

Casey always had the courage of his convictions.  He practiced medicine the way he thought it should be practiced, called a spade a spade, stood up for what he believed was right... and stood up for his adopted country when duty called.  He volunteered for the service during World War Two, moving the family to Washington D.C. when Barry was very young. And he had the courage of his political beliefs and affiliation, a lifelong Democrat locked in eternal struggle and loving embrace with his oldest and dearest friend, an elected Republican, a man who would later become Chief Justice of the Pennsylvania Supreme Court, but still have to put up with arguments from an unrepentant liberal.

I remember conversations with Casey at the nursing home in which he resided for the last several years of his life, where he spoke of friendships that spanned multiple decades, where I sought his ad"1ce and his insight, and where I brought my son Benjamin to see him, the very first place I ever went taking my new baby out by myself.

I remember a video in which he and his wife discussed their life together, their own journeys. I remember his experiences in Montreal, his early desire to become a rabbi, his education at McGill.  I remember a special man, a personal friend, a giant of the spirit.

And I remember another legend from our Jewish tradition. It is said, that at any given time, the existence of the entire world depends on 36 righteous individuals, the lamed-vavniks . These people are known by their character, by how they affect the people around them. They do not necessarily know themselves to be particularly righteous; indeed, I have never heard of any one of the 36 who knew that he or she held such exalted status. Hidden, they are recognized only through hints, in single moments, or in the summation of a lifetime, when we can take the measure of a man. In my life I have been lucky. I believe I have met two of the 36. Casey was one. I was honored to have known him.

So many of us strive for the things we cannot take with us from this world into the World to Come.  But a good name, an honored reputation   Cynics say you can't take it to a bank    they are wrong.  For what they say applies only to the banks in this world to be the master of a good name.  That is the only account we can open now and draw on still after we are gone.